Tip 3 : Look at Him!

C. I look at him. – Something so simple and subtle is changing the game. I no longer just look into the pot of boiling water while I cook.  As he sits at the kitchen counter while I cook, I turn the heat to a slow simmer, take a pause and listen to him. Instead of thumbing through Facebook, occasionally nodding to signal I am listening, I put my phone down and turn towards him while he talks.  Lately, I am looking at him when he speaks. This lets him know I am interested in what he has to say. This shows that I am putting his conversation and concerns above any other person in the world for that moment. It allows him to see me smile and giggle at his humor. Occasionally, we catch glances and speak to each other with our eyes. Looking at him makes him see me differently. He sees me as the girl who finds him funny, interesting and smart. Men are attracted to women who think highly of them. So slow down ladies. Put the phone down. Look at your man and he will start “looking” at you in a way that he has not in a while.