The "Look": Tip 2

B. Less familiar. More flirty. – If you ask most married women what is one of our favorite perks of marriage, somewhere on our list would be the ability to “just be ourselves”. Translation: We walk around in head scarves, sweat pants and T-shirts much of the day while leaving the door to the bathroom open while handling all of our business.  

True enough, there is great contentment in having a life partner that you are completely comfortable around. However, for many wives, that comfort has morphed into complacency. Ladies, though comfort with someone increases over time, physical attraction can decrease over time if we are not intentional.  

I have made a conscientious effort to be less of the familiar wife and more of the flirty girl. I put on lip gloss and powder before going into the house after work. I make sure my arm pits stay shaved. I invested in several comfortable yet cute lounging outfits. I shower before coming to bed and spray a little perfume. And if you would allow me to get “real real”, I no longer use the toilet in our master bedroom when needing to handle my business.

Do I have to do this? No! Should I have to do this? Maybe. Do I want to do this? Yep, because if I don’t continue to turn my husband on, somebody else will.

I enjoy being my husband’s partner. I like being his friend. Sometimes though, it’s fun being his girlfriend.

Make sure to visit the site tomorrow to get tip #3 to earning more “looks”.